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Meet my neighbor, Allison. She is constantly telling me about her teenage son, Zach. “If he would just pull up his grades… he needs to pay closer attention to what we tell him…. if he was just more interested in life…..” Allison has a list of what Zach should do that he isn’t doing and reminds him about it daily because, as she says, “I care.”

The origins of the word “care” (from online etymology.com) center on anxiety and serious mental attention. To be “careful” is to be full of woe or concern.  Interestingly enough, the origin of the verb “to care” means to be filled with anxiety and to be “careless” is to be free from anxiety.

This type of caring is really all about fear. If you strip back the personal details surrounding Allison and Zach, her manner of caring simply says: I care, and so when you begin to act the way I think you should I will feel better. Until then I will be the only one who cares enough about you to worry, and to voice my disappointment no matter how bad it makes me feel.

Does any of this sound familiar? If you want to be free from anxiety is the solution not caring? To me not caring doesn’t sound much better than caring and being gripped by fear. I’d like to propose the act of caring in a different light. Caring without fear. To begin caring without fear, forget about caring for others. Direct all of your caring inward toward yourself. Sound selfish? Not really….

First, be care-full. Be full of care about what you say, do, and think because you are (you’ve heard this before) the sole creator of your universe. You are the steward of the human body you inhabit. What you decide is true (the stories you tell yourself) about what happens to you and around you has a tremendous impact on your health, wealth, and all your relationships. It is well worth the effort to be care-full.

When we tell ourselves stories that fuel anxiety, and when we repeat those stories so many times that we believe they’re true, we become care-less. Being care-less causes the loss of the most important thing we possess: the power to change what we have the power to change (what we believe everything means).

Again, begin by directing all of your caring toward yourself. Be care-full and see what it is like to care without fear. Accomplishing that see how delightful it is to fearlessly care about all the wonderous LIFE that whirls around you.

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Ray Dodd
http://www.powerofbelief.com

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The Power of Belief: Beliefs about Wealth

A common question I get goes something like this… There is an old saying: “Do what you love and the money will come.” Well, it isn’t. I have taken, what used to be a hobby, and made it into a full time business. I’ve watched The Secret numerous times and applied every positive thinking technique I can find. It’s not working! I’m not achieving the prosperity I desire. What am I doing wrong? 

The power of belief creates, first and foremost, opportunity. It changes the way you feel about yourself, tones how you see the world, and supercharges the energy you project into every situation you’re in. Make no mistake about it - that’s very powerful. But if you are interested in creating greater wealth it’s vital to consider another simple fundamental principal that many people underestimate: You will only receive value for labors or products that people value. That value will be exactly what they perceive it is.

Jack Canfield, author of The Success Principals, puts it this way in his blog: “………. if you want to make a lot of money, you have to play a game where lots of money is made. You will not become a multi-millionaire being a preschool teacher. You can argue that preschool teachers are more valuable than professional baseball players, and you would probably be right, but it doesn’t matter. It is what it is. As Byron Katie teaches, when you argue with reality, you always lose.”

When you insist on being right, even if you are right, it doesn’t matter. When you argue with reality, you always lose. So, if you are interested in using the incredible power of positive belief to assist you in creating greater abundance don’t forget the “doing” part. Do your research. Are others getting the feedback (results) that you want doing what you are considering as the new path to your happiness and prosperity?

Align your intent, and the power of belief, with what gets results.

BeliefWorks,

Ray Dodd, author, The Power of Belief

http://www.everydaywisdom.us